Flashback Friday (Part 81) - To Have A Good Friend, You Need To Be A Good Friend
March 11, 2011
Most colleges have spring break this week. When I was in school I went to Key West twice and the outer banks once but my junior year I went solo to London for a week. One of my closest friends from high school was living there for the semester and it was my opportunity to go across the Atlantic for the first time.
I didn’t have a passport and due to some procrastination, need to mail my original birth certificate which was five hours away from my townhouse at school and just being a 20-year old college student, the day I was supposed to fly to England I didn’t have my passport. Yet.
My flight from Dulles was at 6 p.m. I spent the afternoon driving around my neighborhood at the top of every hour looking for the mailman postal carrier.
I found him.
He was the wrong mailman postal carrier.
At 3 p.m. I went out again and found the right person. In what seemed like slow motion she moved to the back of the truck, saw my name on an envelope from the US government with an address in New Orleans.
I had my passport.
I spent the week doing all sorts of exciting things like seeing Trafalgar Square, Buckingham Palace, Oxford University, St. Paul’s Cathedral, Tower of London, Piccadilly Circus and constantly looking the wrong way before crossing the street.
But one of my most favorite things was the literary pub tour with my friend Amy and her fellow UNC classmates.
For a few pounds, a tour guide took us past someone of notoriety in the literary world's houses and then we’d go to the nearest pub where he’d recommend a half pint of a select beer. Our group would just order a pint of Newcastle or Guinness and drink it twice as fast.
This may or may not have led to some quick trips to powder our noses at the next pub.
On my last night, we celebrated my 21st birthday which was a few days later. This may or may not have led to a lot of wine being consumed, dancing and some eternal devotion of our friendship between Amy and I captured in this picture.
This picture is still one of my most favorite.
My dead grandmother emails more than Amy but she has already sent me a happy birthday message this morning.
The lesson here is to have a good friend, you need to be a good friend. Also accepted, don't wait til the last minute to apply for a passport. I've done it twice.
Now it's your turn.
Find an old picture like Cathy and share a story about it and then email me so I can add a link. Flashback Friday has no real rules other than to have fun.

9 Comment:
Great photo, Deb and Amy. I am looking forward to all the snarkiness you post, Deb. DT
Cathy said I should rush right over here and sing Happy Birthday...Happy Birthday to you...Happy Birthday to you...Happy Birthday websavymom..Happy Birthday to you :-)
You look adorable!
Awesome photo! And, whoa, I can see Troy in your face!
Way to wait until the last minute with the passport! I would have been freaking out. Sounds like it was a fab trip.
Happy Birthday xx
Love the pubs of London.. hic hic
Back when you only needed a certified birth certificate to go to many locations, I was going to Bermuda with a friend and her kids. We were driving to Atlanta after work to spend the night and fly out early the next morning. The day before we were leaving for Atlanta, we were loading the car and she handed me the stack of their birth certificates. In bold type across the top of hers it read "Not a Certified Copy". She spent the next day on the phone in the town she was born (in Pennsylvania, and we were in Alabama). We had a connection in Charlotte where she had to take a cab to the FedEx office where they had sent her passport before we could continue to Bermuda. She had a passport well in advance before her next foreign trip!
That was an experience most kids never get. You are so lucky!
What an opportunity, especially at that age. Sounds like you have a good memory too.
The older I get, the more I realize the truth about friendship. Being a friend is reciprocal.
Hope your birthday was a great one!
xo
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